I didn’t mean to to put abuse in quotes, and I didn’t realise how offensive and rude my ask sounded. I am just very nosey and forward & I didn’t really think it hrough before I wrote it, I also thought the abuse you may have suffered might be something you talked about on your blog, and were open about it as you have mentioned it in a previous post, plus I can relate to abuse… I was very wrong to have asked you that question anyway, so again I apologise.